Shifting your perspective

Main Truth: "We rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope, and hope does not put us to shame, because God's love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us." Romans 5:3-5 ESV

There are a lot of people who are struggling with this new reality from the COVID 19 Pandemic. It's bringing up emotions and feelings that are leaving them exhausted and feeling like a failure as they work from home, teach their kiddos and manage a full household 24/7.

In order to adapt to the reality of what life looks like now, we have to be able to shift our perspective and thinking to focus on what we can do, need to do and have to do to get through this.

Getting perspective helps you reframe the narrative you are telling yourself and will help you walk through this pandemic with clarity and confidence with the adequate perspective to move forward.

How to Begin to Make the Shift 

The first thing to do is create space to reflect and clear your head. Park your brain so you can engage with the Holy Spirit. Find the space and make time. Do what you need to do to make it happen. This will look different for everyone. It's okay to take all the time you need to clear your head. Don't skimp here. Sit for awhile. Get comfortable with being uncomfortable. Give yourself permission to be open to what the Holy Spirit is showing you. 

As you are clearing your head, notice what is going on inside of you. Ask yourself the following questions and jot down your answers:

What is bringing life into my soul right now?

What is weighing me down?

What am I doing that I don't want to do?

What am I doing that feeds my soul?

What does my heart say?

What to Do Next

Identify your core feelings. I know I said the feelings word and that can cause fear and anxiety if there are hurts and wounds that have been buried deep because let's face it no one wants to acknowledge pain. This is deep work and will help you bring to the surface sooner rather than later those core feelings that are hurting your soul. Partner with the Holy Spirit asking Him to reveal those feelings so He can heal them. This area is key to relating better with the people in your life. Feelings are data and they often inform how you respond to yourself and others. Feelings and emotions can tell us things that reason can't. They provide a window into our hearts. The goal here is acknowledging those feelings and asking God to show you more of Him as you work through them. Give yourself permission to feel so you can shift your perspective and move on.

Ask yourself the following questions and jot down what the Holy Spirit brings to mind. 

I feel vulnerable when __________________

What feels ever-present in me?

What feels steady in me?

When I'm feeling strong I _________________

When I'm fearful I _____________________